My boyfriend is one of the most caring and loving people I've ever met. He's not only kind, but also very responsible. He's a computer web designer with a good job and a big income. Honestly, I haven't looked for anyone else because I feel like he's the one for me.
But there's one thing that keeps bothering me—he has had a disability since birth. His right hand is short because of a congenital defect. For me, this hasn't been an obstacle to loving him. Whenever we're together, I don't think about his physical condition. What's important is that we're happy and we love each other.
But others think differently. I have been told several times by my parents and friends that we might have a child with a disability if we stay together. To be honest, I am afraid of that possibility. I don't want to regret my decision one day, especially if our future child will have a difficult time.
Despite these misgivings, my heart belongs to him. He is so kind, he never neglects me, and he makes me feel important every day. I told myself that I would rather be with someone who is disabled but honest and good than someone who is physically perfect but doesn't know how to love and appreciate.
But I must admit, it's hard to fight the fear and judgment of society. Sometimes I wonder, am I really ready to face other people's comments? Am I ready to fight for him even if others oppose him?
So I want to ask: If you were in my situation, would you continue the relationship even though the person you love has a disability? Is it right for me to listen to my heart rather than what others say?
