My name is Winnie, 40 years old, and I remain a virgin. I am an orphan. I lost my parents when I was young. Due to the hardships of life, my aunt and uncle were my only family. They became my parents—they sent me to college, fed me, took care of me. Especially Uncle, he was always there for me.
My aunt and uncle loved me very much. Even though I wasn't their biological child, they made me feel like I was their true child. But when Aunt passed away, it was a huge blow to both of our lives. Me, as the niece who was almost a child. And Uncle, who lost his wife.
Since then, I never left Uncle. I took care of him. During those times, I didn't realize that I didn't have time to love anyone else. I never had a boyfriend. Years passed, and here I am now—an old maid.
Until one day, I was surprised by what Uncle said. At the age of 70, he admitted that he wanted to marry me. He said, he loved me. Also, he said he had no children or to leave his wealth. And after all, he said there was nothing wrong with it because we were not related by blood.
I was shocked. I didn't know how to feel. Is this pity? Is it a debt? Or do I also have strange feelings for him?
Uncle also said that he is no longer capable of having sex. As for me, I am in menopause. So just in case, this is not a marriage to have children or for a physical relationship. He just wants someone to grow old with. Someone to hug. Someone to talk to. Someone to take care of.
But I know it's not that simple.
I also think about what other people will say. What about our relatives? What if they say I'm only after money? What if they say this relationship is bad or shameful? Especially since Uncle has become like a father to me.
But on the other hand, don't I have the right to be happy? After all, many people get married not just because of love but because of friendship, respect, and the need for a life partner.
I can't deny it—I owe a lot to Uncle. If it weren't for him, I might not have finished my studies. I wouldn't be able to stand on my own now. But most of all, he's a good person. He didn't force me. He didn't ask. He just expressed his feelings.
So now, the decision is mine. Is it right for me to repay all the good things he has given me by staying together for the rest of my life? Even if we are not a traditional couple, even if we don't have children, even if others talk about us—if we are both happy and content, do we really need to prove it to others?
