We've tried so many things. I'm Aileen, and my husband is Mark. Honestly, we just wanted to have an extra income. So we tried almost every networking, sales marketing, and any seminar that promised quick money. The ending? Almost all the money we invested was wasted.
We just dream of making a good living. We want to save, have extra for necessities, and help our family. But despite all our efforts, sales are still low. Mark is tired, and he almost doesn't want to try anymore. He keeps saying:
“Aileen, not everything that looks good in presentation is also good in reality.”
It's hard to rely on promises. I can't count how many times we've heard the words "you'll make money right away" and "this is the key to financial freedom." Many programs are great at first—powerpoints, success stories, and motivational talks. But in real life, not everyone is given the right support. Sometimes, they become more of a burden than a help.
We learned the value of trust in the product. Mark said, before you join, you must believe in the product. Because how can you sell if you yourself are not convinced? That's true. Because we noticed, it's really easier to sell when you feel the value of what you're holding.
Do your research before jumping in. We also learned that you can't just be a jerk. You need to find out the history of the company, whether it's legal, whether it has a clear plan, and real proof of success. It's not just about recruitment and profit. Because often, when you only chase profit, you lose in the end.
We looked for another way. After we stumbled a few times, we had a serious talk. I said to Mark:
“I don't want to just give in to hype. I want something that's sure and makes sense.”
So we tried online freelancing, we sold local products, and created a small home-based business with little capital. While we were doing this, we also studied digital marketing and online selling to be more competitive.
This is the lesson that stands out. Not all income is for everyone. With so many scams and ever-changing systems, studying before entering is really important. And above all, you need to talk as a couple. Because if you don't agree, it's double the headache.
Now, Mark and I are more careful. We no longer rush into networking invites. We have learned that money is not something to be thrown into lightly. It's better to take it slow but sure.
